If human beings did not have experience of frustration or failure,
what had happened to this world now? Probably science civilization
like this will not exist. The convenient machine and many convenient
things which we use were produced as a result of human beings
having challenged for a long time. It was a chain of frustration
and failure coming so far.
Man is not immediately successful, when it challenges to one
thing. In order to succeed, frustration and failure were experienced
repeatedly and the target is reached. Man's life may also fall
victim. However, human beings move forward repeating frustration
and failure, and have continued up to now.
It cannot move forward, if it was made worried just because
our life also made frustration and a mistake. If it is made
worried, it will become "depression" or will "neurosis."
An important thing is saying how frustration and failure are
considered here. When it says from a conclusion, frustration
and failure are the treasuries of the precious article which
teaches that there was nothing from a part for former. Essence
for frustration and failure to move forward to the following
step is hidden. When such a thing is said, people who have a
question as "really?" are almost the case. However,
it is not known without frustration and failure that it is new.
There is no human being who understands from the beginning that
it is new. Man notices a new thing only after experiencing frustration
and failure. It is man. Human beings' history repeated frustration
and failure and a new thing has been discovered. Therefore,
human beings built wonderful civilization. Those who made frustration
and a mistake and are depressed need to notice this. It is decided
that it will be "failure teaches success."
It will be added if minus and minus are multiplied in mathematics.
Frustration and failure are the aspects of affairs of minus
for man. However, this minus is changeable into man at plus.
For example, suppose that you failed in the enterprise and left
a large amount of debt. In such a case, you must not consider
worrying worriedly and "committing suicide." Don't
die from such a problem. It is the arrangement method of a debt
that it must think first by such an economic problem. In such
a case, the right arrangement method is chosen law. Please do
not borrow money by any means from the illegal finance of high
interest rates. Moreover, if it robs, it will lapse into a plight
increasingly. Please consult with a lawyer on a legal problem.
When it goes bankrupt, it is important to choose the right solution
using law. If it makes a mistake in this, it will go in the
surprising direction. What is necessary is just to redo life,
if a problem is solved completely. And the experience which
went wrong is surely helpful into new life. The view over money
and the view over work change. If you reflect on why it failed,
what has not been noticed at all until now can be discovered.
If the right solution is chosen when you failed, a new way will
surely open. It is a view important also for eye a many in a
direction bright in the future to choose the right solution
by frustration and failure. This is the same also in an individual
problem. Correspondence is overdue, if slow in order to have
frustration and failure in plus. The more correspondence is
overdue, the more the situation is aggravated. It brings forward
and an early decision is important. Please be in charge of problem
solving by the soul of first move, sure victory.
The present age's "depression" by stress is increasing.
Let's consider and see how this minus is changed into plus.
If man becomes sick, he has only a doctor. Please treat "depression"
correctly. You became sick for writing unreasonableness. It
is necessary to improve an old life. It is necessary to improve
how to commit former. Men has to rest, when resting. Man becomes
sick for the first time, and notices "Resting is important."
Various points examining themselves can be discovered by the
favor which became sick. Such a thing is considered as plus.
Although I think that it is in addition to this, please consider
the rest for yourself.
Man discovers new value only after he experiences the thing
of minus. Please be caught only by the minus sides in frustration
or failure, and that idea should throw away, saying "I
am hopeless","I being in the end" or, and "the
future being pitch・black." It is not now useless. Please
think that the big chance to notice a new thing is coming. The
chance somewhat to enlarge you is coming. Thus, please think.
Next, I wish to consider "worrying." It often hears
the thing of the person who committed suicide "it seems
that it worried about some problems." "A trouble"
cannot be lightly considered for man. If it worries worriedly
alone, it becomes impossible to sleep night also. And a nerve
gets tired. If it becomes impossible to sleep at night, please
have a hypnotic prescribed from a doctor. Sleeping first is
important. Please consult with those who can trust that you
next worry. Please open your heart and tell a counselor a trouble
honestly. It is that this is the most important. Please do not
hold a trouble alone by any means. The psychology where man
does not want to show others a weak point works. However, that
it is alone unsolvable arises in life. There are we, also when
I have to have people help. When such, I speak about the actual
condition obediently and please have advice given. Those who
become power are surely needed. The heart becomes light only
by telling people a trouble. Man encounters various things,
while making a living. It is natural to encounter various things.
Life is not only the occurrence of plus. Rather, many occurrences
of minus are awaiting. No value can discover the life which
succeeds all and does not have failure and frustration, either.
Life is interesting just because there are various things. And
the subtlety of the depth of life, pleasure, joy, and humanity
can be felt. Especially it is valid, it can be experienced.
If it dies, there is no worth born to man.
Just grinding the problem of minus of life by plus thinking
is the secret which opens a new fresh ground. Man gets it. Money
is not applied to changing a "view." Cost is zero.
It is good only by making "a positive decision" by
oneself.
Man understands nobody for a future thing. The man will be
God if there is a person who understands. Therefore, the thing
of your point and nobody understand. Although we do not understand
a future thing, we have the peculiarity of being freely pessimistic
of the future. There are much people "will be pessimistic
of the future" if the aspect of affairs of minus is encountered
in life. Although nobody understands a future thing, it thinks
freely such. Suppose that the large・sized hurricane of 60m of
maximum wind speed is approaching now the place in which you
live. In that case, what do you do? You regard as waiting that
clamp a board on a sliding shutter and hurricane passes. That
is because you understand "Hurricane does not keep still
and passes."
If the storm of life is encountered, there are those who are
freely pessimistic and take their life. The storm of life as
well as hurricane passes. What is necessary is just to wait
to pass. Please do not make absolute what it is freely pessimistic
and takes a life. Man can solve on any aspects of affairs by
plus thinking. The day whose storm of life is no longer a storm
surely comes on by this plus thinking. And also when this storm
can be appreciated on the contrary, it surely comes. The storm
of life grows up you as a result.
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Now, you are trying to take down 200 goods containing 30kg by
hand from a track. It is the very tight labor which is taken
down to one one・piece hand. You will consider work not surely
do. However, it changes depending on a view. "It is the
time of lack of exercise now." "Money is paid specially
in a sport gym, and he be can exercise and can sweat."
"If this work is done, money will be got and movement will
also be possible." "And he can sweat." "There
is no such good movement." If it thinks by such plus thinking,
a positive motivation will come. Thus, if it thinks, minus will
change to plus. Various minus in life is also changeable into
brass by your "view."